My big, dirty secret and how I started the fall of with a BANG!

(SPOILER ALERT: I’m going to be giving away THE ONE ESSENTIAL KEY MOST PEOPLE ARE NOT TALKING ABOUT THAT WILL ACTUALLY TRANSFORM FEAR and have you move through it joyously, faithfully, willingly vs white knuckling your way through it, so read all the way through!)

Ok, lets just get to it with the big reveal… just a few months ago I went through a few “dark” moments where I felt stuck, paralyzed, and in fear. I had hit my ceiling in my work and it was time to bust through, but for a moment (or three) I, well, froze.

But here’s the thing, to be an empowered woman, doesn’t mean you never feel fear again. Rather, it means you have the inner toolkit that ensures you don’t get paralyzed by fear AND you move through it successfully, gracefully and in fact JOYFULLY as the medium for great expansion fear really is!

That, my dears, is true power, and exactly what I did!

I made some much-needed changes (mostly within) and fast-forward to September … WOW, have I started the fall off with a bang!

I feel supercharged, confident, courageous, clear. I am moving forward with a fierceness, love and determination I haven’t felt in a long time. I’m in awe at the focused productivity I’m having, the deepened faith and vision I’m seeing with, the creativity I’m unleashing, and most of all, the fulfillment I am feeling from getting to spread joy and ignite healing in our world in a greater way!!

Feels a world away from where I was JUST A FEW MONTHS AGO, PARALYZED BY FEAR…

Yes, It’s so easy in these moments when we are about to step into the unknown, to get hooked by the fear and retreat… to wonder “With all the work I’ve done, how can I feel fear and paralysis, AGAIN!?!” … to throw our hands up in the air and say, “I can’t! I quit!”

Unaware that the fear running through our head is likely just false habits of thought programmed into us by our parents, schooling and society, in those moments the thoughts seem so real. The irony is that these thoughts don’t spare you from danger rather they keep you from moving forward into the great unknown where your greatness, your dreams and Spirit lives.

Yes, the majority of your thoughts at the end of the day are simply, false. They are habitual response patterns we innocently learned from a society based on the collective agreements of lack, fear and the limited vision of our physical eyes rather than a superior spiritual sight that is connected to and understands the great unfolding going on for all of us and knows the abundance in which we are truly part of.

In other words, the first step to move through fear is a paradigm shift within you about you and your thoughts.

Can you stop, take a breath and instead of believing them, play a “What if?” game with me by asking yourself the following:

What if… The other side of fear

  • None of those thoughts or feelings I have now are real?
  • Real as they may seem, these thoughts are programmed responses that like an alarm, were made to go off anytime something new appeared?
  • I’ve just forgotten I am an all-powerful creator and extension of something great, here to JOYFULLY live and co-create in a safe, abundant, supportive universe?
  • I have those thoughts and feelings, but they aren’t who I Am and I can simply observe them unaffected and let them be?

If you took a deep breath and fully sat with these questions, I’m sure you’re already feeling a shift.

Yes, much of what we think is “truth” is nothing more than programming based on lies about who we truly are. And since we tend to experience life through our thinking, we buy into these lies as indisputable fact. What’s worse, lost deep in the muck of these fear-ridden tales of not good enough or incapable, we don’t realize we have the power to no longer believe them and step out behind them to see what really is going on!

And so what is really going on?

For me, in that moment, all that had happened was that I had come to my growth edge as a human and my soul was ready to experience a deeper level of self-knowledge, a deeper knowing and faith in the brilliance I both am and serve.

On the exterior, what happened was that I had reached a ceiling in my professional life of service and I was ready to get my Self out in a greater way… BUT…to the fear voice inside, nothing could be more threatening to its insecure notions of itself than greater self-expression and being human, I got hooked by the fear and experienced a screeching paralysis once again. (Woops!)

Fortunately I’m empowered with a hefty set of tools that ensured this fall into doubt was minimal and quick.

Yes, there were several practices of mine that I applied that led me to feeling so courageous today… AND… the foundation was remembering that I Am the unshakable center of peace witnessing these programmed thoughts and I have the power to not believe those paralyzing tales!

In the end, life is just a pivoting game where we are constantly CHOOSING between living by Truth or falling back into lie. By CHOOSING the side of our soul and to believe in our greatness in a greater way, moving through fears actually becomes joyous as you are rooted in the delicious force of faith and you trust there are only blessings on their way. And through this choice is how you come to touch, unearth and know your brilliance in a greater way.

“BUT IT’S SO SCARY!!!”

If you’re still focused on the lie that busting through is scary, I invite you to realize that on the other side of that wall is not the potential for failure, hardship or pain, rather the amazing being you truly are and the great beauty, wealth, power and vitality you have been yearning for.

To stay behind the wall is actually infinitely more hurtful. To stay behind the wall, you affirm the insecure stories that create fear in the first place, you deny yourself your dreams and stay asleep in pain rather than discover just how beautiful and brilliant you are. Ouch.

In other words, busting through the walls is the most satisfying blessing you can give yourself… It’s the journey that helps you finally come to rest contently inside yourself and makes life a joyful gift you are always enthusiastic to unwrap.

And it all begins with this one radical paradigm shift; one I know you’re ready for, one I know you feel resonant with deep inside! It is the paradigm shift to finally acknowledge and connect to the brilliant, unshakable part within you, recognize all else as irritating mental tales and move through life from there.

Yes, there were other steps I took this summer that brought me to today – supercharged with great Self-assurance, vision and faith – but none of them would be lasting if I hadn’t started here, remembering who I really Am.


SHIRLY’S BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!!!

IF YOU’RE READY TO STOP BEING PARALYZED BY FEAR & FINALLY LEARN HOW TO JOYOUSLY BRING YOUR SACRED GIFTS AND DREAMS TO OUR WORLD…

IF YOU’RE READY TO FINALLY EXPERIENCE A DEEP CONNECTION TO YOUR TRUE SELF & SPIRIT AND THE REAL CONFIDENCE THAT ENSUES THAT MAKES LIFE A WONDERFUL JOYOUS ADVENTURE…

Then you’ll want to join me for MY FIRST GROUP COURSE IN A COUPLE YEARS starting October 29th :

EMPOWERED BY YOUR SOUL Transformation Bootcamp
A 9-Week Empowered Woman’s Journey to Break through Doubt & Fear
so You Can Confidently Align with Your Soul’s Power, Purpose and Joy!

I will be sending all the details in a couple days so stay tuned!! This is the only time the course will be offered in such an intimate setting for such a minimal investment… IF YOU KNOW YOUR TIME IS NOW TO EXPERIENCE THE BEAUTY AND GREATNESS IN YOU… you won’t want to miss it!

Stay tuned…

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