I have a secret I want to get off my chest…
I’ve always been that go-to-girl helping others transcend hidden blocks and fears to feel empowered once again. And so it was natural for me to become a counselor and coach…
I eagerly spent over a decade (and nearly $100K) getting degree after degree in everything from spiritual and developmental psychology to holistic nutrition.
Now, the first part of my secret is that this joyful obsession wasn’t just to help clients rise above their frustrations and create fulfilling lives of joy and impact…
No, it was also to help me. (Shocking! I know!)
All jokes aside, its true. I wasn’t always the highly expressed, joyful and confident woman I am today. Once ago, I was a painfully insecure, anxious wallflower.
Now that’s not what makes this secret a big deal (a huge number of transformational coaches are the “wounded healers” who learned to help others by helping themselves)… Here’s what does;
Even after DECADES of ceaseless studies and dedication to my healing…
Something still felt off inside me!
***Sigh***
While I had accomplished huge leaps and felt remarkably more confident, finally living a pretty joyful life of heart-felt service, community and fun, I still had more moments of paralyzing doubt and feeling “not good enough” than I cared for.
I was still having too many pain-filled experiences where I found myself wondering…
“After all my work, how am I feeling this again!?!”
Can you relate?
Have you also spent endless resources towards your growth only to find yourself time and again, ridden with the old familiar doubts and hesitation that keep your visions and soul’s purpose an unfulfilled dream in your longing heart?
And how could that be after all our studies on psychology, healing, the law of attraction, etc…?!?!
The good news is there is an end to this insanity.
Today I gratefully say I unlocked the key to feeling off all the time and how not to fall into the paralyzing pit of those old emotions that kept me hiding and playing small. (Note I didn’t say “I DON’T” have those emotions anymore.)
The other news is that we are far from the only ones who experience these emotions that keep you from owning your greatness and sharing your gifts in the world.
The truth is that THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FEARLESS INDIVIDUALS.
The people who are successfully living their soul’s purpose out in the open and seem fearless are simply doing one of two things:
They’re either (a) hiding their insecurities or (b) learned to move through them so they didn’t hold them back!
Trust me, I’ve had the privilege to know many internationally-known leaders in spirituality, psychology, activism and business and while on the outside they appear completely free from doubt and like their life is a blissful dream… internally they too battle with insecurities and the constant pull of our ego’s sneaky, dream-annihilating voice.
Now lets get one thing straight – THIS DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE FRAUDS. Its what makes them such great leaders because they are walking examples of having the fear and doing it anyway.
The truth is that Leaders are cultivated, not born. And this means you can cultivate the leader in you too! Hurrrah!
Now onto more good news…
While fear never fully goes away, it does decrease! When I learned to overcome my fears, I realized I was simultaneously causing them to diminish. Today I am doing things I would have never dared before. (And life is way more fun without that nagging voice hooking me and keeping me from joyfully doing what I’m here to do).
So how did I finally shake off feeling something was off and break through fear?
I learned to stop looking at every limiting insecurity case by case, tirelessly looking to uncover the root so I could transform each as they arose (long and quite drawn out), and instead I finally SAW the fundamental error in self-understanding that was creating and affirming the fear in the first place.
I had a revolutionary paradigm shift that changed how I experienced myself, my thoughts and life and from here, I was able to learn to stop the doubtful voice inside from controlling (and ruining) my life.
More so, from here, I began to JOYFULLY share myself with the world (vs the old white-knuckling, fear-ridden exhausting charging forward)! Ahhhh… what a relief!
This game-changing blessing has become one of the key tools I teach clients to help them let go of doubt and limitation in a matter of weeks and finally move forward confidently on their visions and dreams. YES!
So my dear, if you’re done with feeling insecure, hiding out and playing small, I HAVE 5 SPOTS FOR MY 1-ON-1 DIVINE PATH ACTIVATING transformational coaching programs currently available and maybe, just maybe, one of them has your name on it.
Your only next step to find out if my unique work is for you is to apply for a complementary discovery session with me HERE (which in itself will knock your socks off and bring you much awesome awareness!!)
And as a NEW YEAR GIFT to you, if you apply by Sunday 2/1/15 (and your application is accepted), you will receive a $79 bonus credit to any of my packages.
Most importantly, remember, THE LEADER IN YOU IS WAITING TO BE CULTIVATED, UNLEASHED AND EXPRESSED… and oh, my dear one, just like I learned to do, SO CAN YOU!
Here’s to making 2015 the year where you break through too!
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